Domestic violence may be happening in your
home or affecting someone close to you, it may even be happening in
your own relationship(s).
You may feel humiliated, frightened, ashamed, alone and confused –
but you are not to blame.
You have the right to live your life free from fear and
violence.
What is Domestic
Violence?
Domestic violence is any physical, sexual,
emotional or financial abuse that happens between people who are,
or who have been, in an intimate relationship.
So it’s not just about physical violence then?
No! Sarah’s husband constantly called her names and criticised
her.
Kelly’s boyfriend did not like her seeing or going out with her
friends.
Shanaz was never given any money, her husband made all the
financial decisions.
Anna’s partner put pressure on her to have sex before she was
ready.
So does domestic violence just happen
to women?
No! Domestic violence is one of the most
common violent crimes in the UK and anybody can be a victim of
domestic violence regardless of their age, race, culture,
sexuality, disability, nationality, religion, gender or
class.
However, most people who are victims of domestic violence are
women. Research shows that one in three women will experience
domestic violence at some point in their lives and that young women
experience more violence than anybody else.
Where can I go for
help?
If you are a girl or woman who is worried
about domestic violence in your own relationship, Women’s Aid
Advice Centre have a free 24 hour domestic violence helpline 0808
2000 247. The Police, Victim
Support, Housing
departments, Social Services or solicitors are some of the other
agencies who can help you. If you are a boy or man who is
worried about domestic violence in your own relationship, you can
approach all of the services above apart from the Women’s Aid
Advice Line.
If you are a child who is worried about domestic violence in your
family phone ChildLine – free 24 hour helpline 0800 1111
Useful
links:
The Hideout
If you're experiencing or witnessing violence
at home, this site will give you advice. Read other children's
experiences.
Respect Not Fear -
Nottinghamshire website all about violence in
teenage relationships
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